The boys are off college for winter break this week, so we’ve been spending a LOT of time collectively. Even throughout common weeks, I’ve them 75% of the time in our custody settlement, so the three of us have developed a lot of little rituals and goofy inside jokes.
(As I discussed earlier than, one factor that has shocked me about divorce is the all-or-nothingness of parenting. Earlier than, with two dad and mom in the home, I might maintain working late if I wanted to, or take an impromptu night stroll, however now, when I’ve the youngsters, I’m totally “on.” After which, once they’re with Alex, I’ve whole free days, which is bizarre/cool and nonetheless feels new to me — for instance, I’ve seen so many humorous performs, like this, this and this.)
So, this week, the boys and I went to dinner with our good friend Grace, and whereas we waited for our meals, we performed the funniest easy recreation. As a gaggle, you attempt to rely to twenty, and anybody can name out every quantity, however two folks can’t say the quantity on the identical time. So, for instance, in our recreation, Toby mentioned, “one,” after which all of us regarded round nervously till Anton known as out, “two!” after which I rapidly mentioned, “three” earlier than anybody else did, after which Grace and Anton mentioned, “4” on the identical time, and we needed to begin over. Make sense?
My good friend Selena (left), who initially taught us the sport
You find yourself dying laughing as a result of it will get tense! We additionally tried taking part in with our eyes closed (I’m positive our desk didn’t look bizarre in any respect), which someway made it simpler? I really like these sorts of random video games the place you don’t want paper or playing cards, so you may play anytime.
Another easy video games you will have up your sleeves? What different household rituals do you get pleasure from?
P.S. A humorous query recreation to play with mates, 21 household board video games which might be really enjoyable, and do you grasp photographs of your pals at house?
(Prime photograph by Alpha Smoot from our house tour.)
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